in which i know i'm a bit of a planner...

although i'm incredibly open as to what happens when i meet up with people, i do like to know ahead of time when it will happen.

when i have to schedule things like massages, karate classes, and Red Cross blood donations - times and places where two or more people need to meet up in some semblance of an orderly fashion for the things that need to happen to, well, happen - is it any wonder i really like to 'schedule' time with my friends? especially when so many of them live so far away? do you guys find it insulting to be scheduled?

why can't this guy - who has now asked me out at least a half-dozen times - comprehend why i'm unwilling to leave my warm house at 7 pm, on the spur of the moment, to meet him for coffee?