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Jul. 10th, 2025 07:54 pm
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It gets weirder...

So Auntie went to the hospital the same day as Stroke cousin came back from rehab. Auntie cam home the next day.

Saturday Cancer cousin with the spinal surgery was cleared to drive again... Yay.

Sunday stroke cousin has a phone call appointment with a doctor about sores she sees in her mouth. The doctor thinks she brought and infection/ virus home from the rehab. Great. She should quarantine. She doesn't.

Monday cancer cousin doesn't feel great. Tuesday she has Chemo and then the rest of the week they are retrieving stem cells to save for when the cancer stops allowing her body to make proper white blood cells (most people with her cancer only live 5 to 10 years... there is no cure or remission). She has caught what ever crud stroke cousin brought home from rehab. Her Chemo and stem cell procedures have all been cancelled and she has to quarantine for maybe 2 weeks.

The family is very stressed and upset. They have seen a Therapist (the sisters, not my 96 Aunt). The therapist says that stroke cousins should not live with them if she is not going to try and fit in with the family.

Oh boy

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Jul. 10th, 2025 07:23 pm
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Happy tomorrow is Friday.

Work is ....work.....

Yesterday the boss had another interview for a temp. This young woman showed up 10 minutes before the interview and really aced the interview. The tellers like her. That boss thinks she is super. The boss came over to me and told me that the interviewee was only 24 years old but she was going to hire her. Sure. Great.
I said she sounds like a good fit with the others and being young means she may not have any baggage. She has a degree in economics and no banking experience, but is eager to learn and wants to start ASAP.

The boss then said that she thought she could train her as bookkeeper. I gave a look...hopefully it was an "aroo?" look and not a WTF look. She said that she didn't think she had anyone that could be bookkeeper when I retire. She doesn't think Rudi can do it. I said that Rudi is capable of doing it, but it is not his strength... like my strength is business operations Rudi's is customer service (He is so good with people I think he should be social role model or leader) and he would not thrive being isolated from people. She said that she really needs to think long term. I said I understood... and I agree because the credit union doesn't pay enough for an experienced bookkeeper. An experienced bookkeeper makes $36 to $40 an hour. I am not criticizing, just stating facts. When I feel I have earned the raise I will ask point blank for it. I promise. (I want to work on being remote Fridays this fall).

Not sure if I shot myself in the foot or not, but I am not wrong. And she needs to train me before she can train others. I also brought up the fact that while I have written documentation she has had it over a month and not reviewed any of it. I told her after her vacation we need to get back to concepts. I set up a follow up via email ... Put it in writing so I have document that she is not doing her part.

The stupid part is that my Boss thinks a 24 year old will stay here 5 to 8 years when raises don't happen. How is this young person supposed to make rent and pay back her college loan. I am her for my Dad...I have the same bills and responsibility as my boss, but she is making 100 grand more a year than I am. This young girl will leave in 2 years.

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Jul. 7th, 2025 10:14 pm
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Friday morning I record a call that the cousins were having people over. I made overnight pulled pork so I had something to bring. We get there and cancer cousin is asleep. Stroke cousin is in Chair in the living room, lead cousin was at the hospital with the Mother and the last cousin was so stressed out she was practically twitching. Lead cousin left at 10 AM and stroke cousin had had 5 accidents. Last cousin standing had been changing adult diapers for and hour and a half and cleaning up leaks...she was fit to be tied. I suggested that she go upstairs and I could take care of things for an hour. I set up food and chatted with stroke cousin. At 1 PM the widow and kids and grand kids of the passed away cousin came in. The. young girls helped me set up more food.

Lead cousin comes home from the hospital and we all eat. Stroke cousin wanted to be waited on, but I know that her PT people say she needs to get things herself. She is capable. She just doesn't want to. There were words. 30 minutes later lead cousin gets a call that they are discharging my aunt so she has to go back to the hospital. I went with her to help...and to escape ;-)

Got home around 4:30 and headed into the garden for a few hours.

Saturday was a beach day at Cranes in Ipswich/. Yay. There were signs saying that sharks were spotted, but I did not see any. I wanted to. Spent 2 hours on the beach. The only wild found were 2 large lion's mane jelly fish. The beach was crowded where the lifeguards were, but pretty quiet a mile down the sand.

Sunday was spend in the garden and then floating in my spa/blow up pool. It was HOT, but the water was refreshing.

Today was work and more yard chores. I hope to be caught up with all of the yard stuff this week.

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Jul. 3rd, 2025 10:33 pm
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Today Stroke cousin was released from rehab and sent back to her sisters' house. They said they could not handle her. There are only 2 of them and they are not strong so they can't lift her out of bed so she can make it to the bathroom. It takes 4 rehab staff to do it. It is hard to get 4 staff people together on one patient. PT says that stroke cousin is capable of getting up from bed...they worked on that in PT...but she does not want to. Oh boy. She was due to be released at 1 pm.


At 11 AM I get a call from lead sister. She is driving. They think my Aunt had a small stroke. Cancer cousin is in the ambulance with my Aunt. In the ambulance my aunt seemed fine. She was talking and could move her hands and feet. She knew all her kids names and even that the oldest son had died in January. They are keeping the aunt at the hospital and will run tests on her

Dad wanted to go over to the cousins tomorrow. I planned on making salad, potato salad and pulled pork. I told the cousins to text and tell me what is going on and if they want to be alone I will keep Dad home. No word and it is almost 11PM. I would have liked to make plans for the morning. Looks like I will garden and see what happens. The pulled pork freezes well.

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Jul. 1st, 2025 07:52 pm
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Suggested movie free w/ ads on youtube

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Rebuilding journal search again

Jun. 30th, 2025 03:18 pm
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We're having to rebuild the search server again (previously, previously). It will take a few days to reindex all the content.

Meanwhile search services should be running, but probably returning no results or incomplete results for most queries.

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Jun. 29th, 2025 09:49 pm
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Yesterday was another wash out. I believe this makes 15 rainy Saturday in a row. Sigh. I went to a nursery look for plants and was disappointed. It was a high end nursery, but things were not stocked as well as the place I go up by Ipswich. Dad and I poked around then I too him out to lunch. Once home I tackled the desk and got rid of a large trash bag full of papers.

Today started out gray, but I did get out in the yard before going to the cousins. I potted up some plants for the patio. Had a stupid garden trick.... while dumping out old soil from a pot from last year I hit it so the front of me was covered in dirt. Well, it wasn't just dirt. The pot was loaded with tiny tiny brown ants. I had a bra full of tiny biting ants.... ow ow ow ow . Glad I am not allergic. Glad I dont live in fire ant territory.

Visited the cousins. I have not seen them in a month. when we got there lead cousin was going to see stroke cousin at the rehab. Stroke cousin's carotid artery surgery went okay, but it has set her back months in her rehab situation and the sisters cannot lift her any longer or move her. Mentally they still can't deal with stroke cousin complaining that the dinner room turned recovery room is too small and that she should have g=her Mother's bedroom and the mother be put in a nursing home. I get it. I would not deal with that either.

It was good to see stroke cousin. She is slower moving. I have a feeling something got botched in the surgery but the docs are saying it's normal. 3 of my Dad's sisters had the surgery and none had issues and were home the next day. Stroke cousin has lost the feeling in how lower lip and possibly control of it. The rehab was told to puree all her food as they didn't want any chewing. They puree'd fish and even a blue berry muffin...how f'ing disgusting is that.

When we came back we ate take out food. They watched base ball and I texted with a friend and listened to a pod cast with one headphone in my ear. No yell so it was a good visit.

Came home and did lawn care. Funny I find clipping the grass close to the white deck material very satisfying while I HATE mowing grass. The hand held clippers make me feel like I am shearing a sheep

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Jun. 28th, 2025 07:34 am
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The building I work in is also a place where patients are treated. It's the cardiac building where my Dad was for a long time. I see the public every day. Yesterday I went to the ladies room and I was stopped by a an older woman, mid 70s, who absolutely loved my hair color and stopped me to ask about it. I told her it was from a box (literally) and the color comes from Germany. She asked what color my natural hair was to get the red. I am a light Brillo pad (steel wool) color. Her hair was past her shoulders and the ends had 2 inches of red. She had a pretty round face and beautiful happy blue eyes. She said that she was too old for the color. I said no you can do it. You are a real redhead and it would look stunning with your eyes. She laughed and said she wasn't a real redhead, but red for a long time. I said she could always go back. Do what you want and have fun.

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